The Exchange · 18+
An alternative to "rate me" forums: get rated anonymously
Updated September 29, 2026
Posting on a "rate me" or "roast me" subreddit means a username, a public history anyone can dig through and comments that stay online. There's a more discreet way to get honest feedback.
The limits of rating forums
On those forums your photo is public and indexed, your username links all your posts together, and comments can be hurtful or creepy. Many people delete their post later, but copies and archives remain.
What's different on the Exchange
No public thread and no comments: each photo is rated 0 to 10 by participants who have posted themselves. You see your average, number of ratings and elo, without ever seeing a username.
- no account or username;
- no public page, nothing indexed by Google;
- ratings, not comments;
- metadata wiped, removal possible;
- adults only.
Getting a fairer score
Natural light, a neutral background, a sharp shot and framing that shows off what you want to show do more than any filter. Add tags: they steer your photo towards people looking for that style.
Why rating is mandatory
To see the next photo you rate the current one. That way every photo gets ratings and everyone takes part. Giving a 10/10 unlocks bonus photos; ratings that are too low invite you to post better photos.
Staying anonymous
Even without a username a photo can give you away: keep your face, tattoos and recognisable parts of your room out of frame if you don't want to be identified.
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- Swapping nudes while staying anonymous: the guide
- Taking a nude without being recognisable
- "Rate my body": an honest, unfiltered and anonymous opinion
- Safe sexting: the golden rules
- Where can you swap nudes safely?
- A Snapchat alternative for private photos
- Leaked nudes or blackmail: what to do right now